Tend To Us
3 days old
Tend To Us is #111 in Lifestyle Paid in United States and charting in 1 of 30 countries we track.
Updated 25 Oct 2026 · rankings refresh through the day
DeveloperHacking Things LLC
CategoryLifestyle
Price9.99 USD
Released
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Version1.0
Age rating17+
First seen by us
25 Oct 2026
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Best rank now
#111
Measured
Tend To Us on the App Store
App details
App ID
6820839047
Publisher
Hacking Things LLC
On the store since
Oct 2026
Under a year
Minimum OS
iOS 26.4+
iPhone 11 and later
Devices
iPhone · iPad
Content rating
17+
2 content notes below
Languages
1
EN
Size
2 MB
Also listed in
Health & Fitness
Content notesInfrequent/Mild Sexual Content and NudityInfrequent/Mild Mature/Suggestive Themes
Where it ranks now
Every top chart it appears in across 30 countries.
| Country | Charts | Rank |
|---|---|---|
| LifestylePaid | #111 |
Apps near Tend To Us on the chart
Lifestyle Paid, around #111.
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App Store, worldwide.
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About Tend To Us
Tend To Us helps you be the husband you want to be, one small thing at a time.
Most marriages don't drift apart over big things. They drift over small moments that got missed. Tend To Us puts those moments back in your day: a question worth asking her tonight, a small thing to do before you leave the house, and a calm plan for the conversation you've been putting off. No lectures. No homework. Just a little help, every day, to look after the woman you married.
ONE GOOD QUESTION A DAY
Every morning Tend To Us hands you a question for her. Light ones for over coffee. Deeper ones about her hopes, her history and what matters to her. Check-ins on how the two of you are doing. And appreciation prompts: specific things to tell her, not ask. Over 240 original questions, each with why it works, follow-ups if she warms to it, and a tip on when to ask.
SMALL THINGS, OFTEN
A daily nudge that takes a minute or less. Put your phone face-down when she starts talking. Kiss her for six seconds, not one. Text her one line that has no request in it. Tap "Did it" and get on with your day.
RITUALS THAT HOLD A MARRIAGE TOGETHER
Four quick daily check-offs: how you part, how you reunite, one appreciation said out loud, and affection that isn't a request. Plus a weekly date and a weekly check-in. Nothing counts against you when you miss one.
GET READY FOR THE HARD ONES
Money. Housework and the mental load. Desire. Her family, your family. Feeling unappreciated. Tend To Us walks you through 22 of the conversations couples find hardest and helps you prepare: what you're hoping for, what she might need, what might fire in you, and a gentler opening line. A live card keeps your plan in front of you while you talk. If things get heated, a 20-minute cool-down with guided breathing helps you come back ready to listen. Afterwards, a short debrief helps you learn from it.
SAY IT GENTLY
Type the thing you want to say. Tend To Us helps you reshape it so she hears the feeling and the need, not the blame.
KNOW HER BETTER
Keep a private page about her: what's on her plate right now, what she's hoping for, the small things she loves, how she's comforted, and the dates that matter. The more you add, the more the prompts become about her.
IDEAS FOR THE TWO OF YOU
47 activities, from fifteen minutes on the couch to half a day out, with steps and what you'll need. Add both of your interests and Tend To Us finds the overlap, and the interesting gaps.
SEE IT ADD UP
A simple monthly calendar shows the days you showed up, alongside your notes about what you noticed and learned.
SMARTER WITH APPLE INTELLIGENCE
On iPhones that support Apple Intelligence, Tend To Us can tailor questions to her, suggest ideas from your shared interests, soften a hard sentence, and write a short reflection after a difficult talk. It all runs on your phone's own chip. Turn it off anytime and everything else still works.
PRIVATE BY DESIGN
What you write about your wife is nobody's business but yours. Ten
Most marriages don't drift apart over big things. They drift over small moments that got missed. Tend To Us puts those moments back in your day: a question worth asking her tonight, a small thing to do before you leave the house, and a calm plan for the conversation you've been putting off. No lectures. No homework. Just a little help, every day, to look after the woman you married.
ONE GOOD QUESTION A DAY
Every morning Tend To Us hands you a question for her. Light ones for over coffee. Deeper ones about her hopes, her history and what matters to her. Check-ins on how the two of you are doing. And appreciation prompts: specific things to tell her, not ask. Over 240 original questions, each with why it works, follow-ups if she warms to it, and a tip on when to ask.
SMALL THINGS, OFTEN
A daily nudge that takes a minute or less. Put your phone face-down when she starts talking. Kiss her for six seconds, not one. Text her one line that has no request in it. Tap "Did it" and get on with your day.
RITUALS THAT HOLD A MARRIAGE TOGETHER
Four quick daily check-offs: how you part, how you reunite, one appreciation said out loud, and affection that isn't a request. Plus a weekly date and a weekly check-in. Nothing counts against you when you miss one.
GET READY FOR THE HARD ONES
Money. Housework and the mental load. Desire. Her family, your family. Feeling unappreciated. Tend To Us walks you through 22 of the conversations couples find hardest and helps you prepare: what you're hoping for, what she might need, what might fire in you, and a gentler opening line. A live card keeps your plan in front of you while you talk. If things get heated, a 20-minute cool-down with guided breathing helps you come back ready to listen. Afterwards, a short debrief helps you learn from it.
SAY IT GENTLY
Type the thing you want to say. Tend To Us helps you reshape it so she hears the feeling and the need, not the blame.
KNOW HER BETTER
Keep a private page about her: what's on her plate right now, what she's hoping for, the small things she loves, how she's comforted, and the dates that matter. The more you add, the more the prompts become about her.
IDEAS FOR THE TWO OF YOU
47 activities, from fifteen minutes on the couch to half a day out, with steps and what you'll need. Add both of your interests and Tend To Us finds the overlap, and the interesting gaps.
SEE IT ADD UP
A simple monthly calendar shows the days you showed up, alongside your notes about what you noticed and learned.
SMARTER WITH APPLE INTELLIGENCE
On iPhones that support Apple Intelligence, Tend To Us can tailor questions to her, suggest ideas from your shared interests, soften a hard sentence, and write a short reflection after a difficult talk. It all runs on your phone's own chip. Turn it off anytime and everything else still works.
PRIVATE BY DESIGN
What you write about your wife is nobody's business but yours. Ten
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