FET Downloads & RevenueFET: Alternative Dating · App Store & Google Play
FET: Alternative Dating gets 1k+ downloads a day worldwide (AppInsider estimate, November 2026, rounded down to a band).
FET: Alternative Dating by Ideawise Ltd. is on App Store and Google Play. Active Users (MAU & DAU), Downloads, rankings, keywords, revenue, and rating totals.
FET: Alternative Dating update history & changes
Last change · 33 events since 13 Nov 2019Full timeline ↓📈iOSEntered the top 100📈iOSCharting in a new country📈AndroidEntered the top 100✏️AndroidDescription updated✏️AndroidShort description updated📦iOSUpdated to version 16.0.0✏️iOSAdded hidden keywords: open-minded📈AndroidCharting in a new country📦AndroidUpdated to version 16.0.0⭐iOSPassed 10K ratings🆕AndroidFirst spotted by AppInsider🆕iOSFirst spotted by AppInsider📦iOSVersion 15.0.0📦AndroidVersion 15.0.0🆕iOSReleased on the App Store🆕AndroidReleased on Google Play
Full timeline · 33 events
- 📈FET: Alternative Dating entered the top 100iOSTop Grossing · Social Networking · AR
- 📈FET: Alternative Dating charting in a new countryiOSArgentina
- 📈FET: Alternative Dating entered the top 100iOSTop Grossing · Social Networking · CO
- 📈FET: Alternative Dating charting in a new countryiOSColombia
- 📈FET: Alternative Dating entered the top 100AndroidTop Free · Dating · MX
- ✏️FET: Alternative Dating: description updatedAndroid· DE
- ✏️FET: Alternative Dating: short description updatedAndroid· DE
- ✏️FET: Alternative Dating: new screenshotsAndroid4 screenshots (was 5) · DE
- ✏️FET: Alternative Dating: renamedAndroidFET: Kinky BDSM Dating & Chat → FET: Alternative Dating · DE
- 📈FET: Alternative Dating entered the top 100iOSTop Free · Social Networking · NL
- ✏️FET: Alternative Dating: app got biggeriOS208 MB → 252 MB (+21%)
- 📦FET: Alternative Dating updated to version 16.0.0iOSImprovement: We fixed a couple of nasty bugs to improve your kinky experience on FET
- ✏️FET: Alternative Dating added hidden keywords: open-mindediOSwords in the App Store's hidden keyword field (found by probing search)
- 📈FET: Alternative Dating charting in a new countryAndroidTurkey
- 📦FET: Alternative Dating updated to version 16.0.0AndroidImprovement: We fixed a couple of nasty bugs to improve your kinky experience on FET
- 📈FET: Alternative Dating entered the top 100iOSTop Grossing · Social Networking · PL
- 📈FET: Alternative Dating charting in a new countryiOSPoland
- 📈FET: Alternative Dating entered the top 100 in 2 chartsAndroidTop Grossing · Dating · MX · Top Free · Dating · NL
- 📈FET: Alternative Dating charting in a new countryAndroidMexico
- 📈FET: Alternative Dating entered the top 100 in 4 chartsAndroidTop Free · Dating · ES · Top Grossing · Dating · NL · Top Grossing · Dating · TH · Top Grossing · Dating · VN
- 📈FET: Alternative Dating charting in a new country in 4 chartsAndroidSpain · Netherlands · Thailand · Vietnam
- 📈FET: Alternative Dating entered the top 100AndroidTop Grossing · Dating · FR
- 📈FET: Alternative Dating entered the top 100iOSTop Free · Social Networking · GB
- 📈FET: Alternative Dating entered the top 100iOSTop Grossing · Social Networking · BR
- 📈FET: Alternative Dating charting in a new countryiOSBrazil
- 📈FET: Alternative Dating entered the top 100iOSTop Free · Social Networking · CA
- 🆕FET: Alternative Dating first spotted by AppInsiderAndroidGermany
- 🆕FET: Alternative Dating first spotted by AppInsideriOS#99 in Top Grossing · Social Networking · Italy
- 📦FET: Alternative Dating version 15.0.0iOSNo release notes
- 📦FET: Alternative Dating version 15.0.0AndroidImprovement: We fixed a couple of nasty bugs to improve your kinky experience on FET
- 🆕FET: Alternative Dating released on the App StoreiOS
- 🆕FET: Alternative Dating released on Google PlayAndroid
Collected from the stores by AppInsider since we first spotted the app. Dates are when we saw each change.
Rating
4.1 ★
45k ratings, both stores
Measured
Best rank now
#14
Android · 
Dating Free
Dating FreeMeasured
New ratings a week
347
▼ -10% vs the 2 weeks before (App Store)
Measured
App Store
App details
App ID
1478870872
Publisher
Ideawise Ltd.
Publisher country
Hong Kong
On the store since
Nov 2019
6 years on the store
Minimum OS
iOS 15.1+
iPhone 6s and later
Devices
iPhone · iPad
Content rating
17+
3 content notes below
Languages
17
CS DA NL EN FI FR DE HU IT JA KO NB …
Size
252 MB
Also listed in
Lifestyle
Content notesFrequent/Intense Mature/Suggestive ThemesUnrestricted Web AccessInfrequent/Mild Profanity or Crude Humor
Google Play
App details
App ID
de.ideawise.fet
Publisher
IDEAWISE LIMITED
Publisher country
Hong Kong
Content rating
USK: Ages 18+
FET: Alternative Dating downloads & installs
Both stores, worldwide. Bands are open; exact numbers are free with an account.
| Store | Downloads / day | Lifetime installs |
|---|---|---|
| App Store | 1k+ | 1M+ |
| Google Play | 500+ | 1M+ Measured |
| Total | 1k+ Confidence | 1M+ Confidence |
How this is calculated
App Store: chart positions and rating growth per country, anchored on its own Android downloads; lifetime from ratings worldwide × installs per rating. Google Play: the daily change in its exact install count. The total adds every store.
Where FET: Alternative Dating's downloads come from Modelled
Last 30 days: organic search, browsing the store, features and paid ads.
Active users
All platforms, worldwide. Free with an account.
Stickiness (DAU / MAU)
how many monthly users open it on a given day
Retention · share of new users still active
Day 1
Day 7
Day 30
Time spent · per daily user
Average time spent Pro
min a day
Sessions a day Pro
Time per session Pro
min
How this is calculated
Monthly users come from lifetime installs across every store, fitted on monthly active user figures companies publish; daily users = monthly × the typical daily/monthly ratio for the category. Confidence is the chance the real number is within half to double ours.
In-app revenue
Worldwide, what users spend before Apple and Google take their fee.
| Store | Per day | Per month | Share |
|---|---|---|---|
| App Store | |||
| Google Play | |||
| Total | Confidence | 100% |
Business model: Subscription-led
How FET: Alternative Dating makes money: subscriptions, one-off purchases and ads.
SubscriptionsIn-app purchasesAds · 18 ad networks
Subscriptions
/mo
of revenue
Ads
/mo
of revenue
Top in-app purchases · App Store US, most popular first
| 1 | 1 Month subscription | |
| 2 | 1 Week subscription | |
| 3 | 1000 Points | |
| 4 | 1 Month subscription | |
| 5 | 1 Month Membership subscription | |
| 6 | 6 Months subscription | |
| 7 | 12 Months subscription | |
| 8 | 12 Months subscription | |
| 9 | 10000 Points | |
| 10 | 1 Month subscription |
Where it ranks now
Both stores, across every country we track.
| Store | Best rank | Charting in | US Top Free | US Top Grossing |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| App Store | #27 Social Networking Grossing | 9 of 30 countries | #128 | #49 |
| Google Play | #14 Dating Free | 14 of 23 countries | – | – |
Full chart lists: App Store · Google Play.
Review momentum
ⓘ How we measure thisApp Store
New ratings a week
250
▼ -10% vs the 2 weeks before
Written reviews a week
16+
US App Store (Apple shows only the newest)
Recent ratings
4.6★
vs 4.3★ lifetime
Recent written reviews
3.6★
people who write skew negative
Review momentum
80/100
faster than 96% of Social Networking apps
Growing fastest in 
United Kingdom ▲ +74% · Germany ▲ +34%
New ratings by country (10)
| Country | New ratings a week | Share | Last 2 weeks vs the 2 before |
|---|---|---|---|
 United States | 160 | 64% | ▼ -22% |
| Germany | 32 | 13% | ▲ +34% |
 Canada | 19 | 7% | ▲ +5% |
| United Kingdom | 15 | 6% | ▲ +74% |
 Brazil | 5.8 | 2% | ▼ -8% |
| Australia | 5.5 | 2% | ▼ -50% |
 France | 4.5 | 2% | steady |
 Spain | 3.5 | 1% | steady |
 Netherlands | 1.8 | 1% | – |
 Italy | 1.5 | 1% | – |
App Store ratings in the countries we track, 4-week average.
Google Play
New ratings a week
97
steady vs the 2 weeks before
Written reviews a week
3.5
Google Play
Lifetime rating
4.0★
recent stars not readable yet: new ratings are a tiny share of the total
Review momentum
65/100
faster than 76% of Dating apps
Review momentum (0-100) blends how fast the app collects ratings compared with other apps in its category (60%), whether that pace is speeding up (25%) and what recent raters give it (15%; recent stars well below lifetime pull it down). Ratings counts are read daily. A jump usually means a launch, a feature, ads or a new review prompt.
Ratings
Both stores. Store data, measured.
| Store | Rating | Ratings |
|---|---|---|
| App Store | 4.3 ★ | 26k |
| Google Play | 3.9 ★ | 20k 1.1k written reviews |
| Both stores | 4.1 ★ weighted by ratings | 45k |
What users say about FET: Alternative Dating
From the 151 most recent App Store reviews in the US.
Mixed (46% of recent reviews give 4–5 stars). People like it for being fun, and good value. The main complaints are about price and subscriptions, and login and account problems. Recent reviews are more positive than earlier ones.
What people like
- Fun: “Good for “fun” and meetups”
- Price & subscription: “Very fun app even without paying”
- Ease of use: “Easy to use lots of fun ;)”
- Useful: “I recommend this App to every kinkster… It's been a lot of fun here since I joined the App”
Common complaints
- Price & subscription: “To costly and to many fakes”
- Login & account: “Cant even make an account”
- Privacy & data: “This app is full of scammers”
- Ads: “Too many paywalls and ads”
About FET: Alternative Dating
AN OPEN-MINDED COMMUNITY, NOT JUST A DATING APP
FET is alternative dating for open-minded people: singles, couples and everyone in between. Chat rooms, groups, a forum, local events and lifestyle dating, all in one place. An alternative lifestyle community. No explaining yourself, no judgement.
A REAL COMMUNITY
Join groups by interest, follow the forum, post to the newsfeed and get answers from members who have been there. Ask the awkward question. This is the part most dating apps don't have.
CHAT ROOMS AND PRIVATE MESSAGES
Live chat rooms to meet people in the open, private messages when you'd rather talk one to one. Chat first, meet when you're ready.
DATING, YOUR WAY
Browse profiles, connect with open-minded singles and couples near you, and be clear about what you're looking for. Casual relationships, polyamory, ethical non-monogamy (ENM), or something lasting. Your call, stated up front.
DECIDE WHO LEADS
Some like to take the lead. Some prefer to follow. Some switch depending on the day. FET is where open-minded people are honest about the dynamic they want, and where clear consent comes first, always.
EVENTS AND MEETUPS NEAR YOU
Find local events, community gatherings and workshops. Meet new people in person, at your pace, with people who already get it.
SAFETY AND DISCRETION
Verified profiles, discreet settings and a dedicated moderation team. Control who sees you and how much.
WHY CHOOSE FET?
- An open-minded community, not just a swipe queue
- Chat rooms, groups, forum and local events
- Alternative dating for singles and couples, curious or experienced
- Say what you want up front, no guessing games
- Discreet, verified and free to join
All photos are of models and used for illustrative purposes only.
FET is free to download. Optional paid memberships unlock additional features.
Privacy: https://www.fet-app.com/en/privacy
Terms: https://www.fet-app.com/en/terms
Visit: https://www.fet-app.com/en
Subscription Service Conditions:
• The membership costs 18.49 USD / 19,99 EUR / 17.99 GBP for 1 month; 63.99 USD / 69,99 EUR / 63.99 GBP for 6 months; and 90.99 USD / 99,99 EUR / 90.99 GBP for 12 months (Prices may vary slightly depending on location and currency). • Payment will be charged to your iTunes Account at confirmation of purchase
• Your subscription automatically renews unless auto-renew is turned off at least 24-hours before the end of the current period
• Your account will be charged for renewal within 24-hours prior to the end of the current period
• You can manage your subscription and switch off the auto-renewal by accessing your Account Settings after purchase
• You cannot cancel the current subscription during the active subscription period
• Any unused portion of a free trial period, if offered, will be forfeited if you purchase a subscription to that publication.
FET is alternative dating for open-minded people: singles, couples and everyone in between. Chat rooms, groups, a forum, local events and lifestyle dating, all in one place. An alternative lifestyle community. No explaining yourself, no judgement.
A REAL COMMUNITY
Join groups by interest, follow the forum, post to the newsfeed and get answers from members who have been there. Ask the awkward question. This is the part most dating apps don't have.
CHAT ROOMS AND PRIVATE MESSAGES
Live chat rooms to meet people in the open, private messages when you'd rather talk one to one. Chat first, meet when you're ready.
DATING, YOUR WAY
Browse profiles, connect with open-minded singles and couples near you, and be clear about what you're looking for. Casual relationships, polyamory, ethical non-monogamy (ENM), or something lasting. Your call, stated up front.
DECIDE WHO LEADS
Some like to take the lead. Some prefer to follow. Some switch depending on the day. FET is where open-minded people are honest about the dynamic they want, and where clear consent comes first, always.
EVENTS AND MEETUPS NEAR YOU
Find local events, community gatherings and workshops. Meet new people in person, at your pace, with people who already get it.
SAFETY AND DISCRETION
Verified profiles, discreet settings and a dedicated moderation team. Control who sees you and how much.
WHY CHOOSE FET?
- An open-minded community, not just a swipe queue
- Chat rooms, groups, forum and local events
- Alternative dating for singles and couples, curious or experienced
- Say what you want up front, no guessing games
- Discreet, verified and free to join
All photos are of models and used for illustrative purposes only.
FET is free to download. Optional paid memberships unlock additional features.
Privacy: https://www.fet-app.com/en/privacy
Terms: https://www.fet-app.com/en/terms
Visit: https://www.fet-app.com/en
Subscription Service Conditions:
• The membership costs 18.49 USD / 19,99 EUR / 17.99 GBP for 1 month; 63.99 USD / 69,99 EUR / 63.99 GBP for 6 months; and 90.99 USD / 99,99 EUR / 90.99 GBP for 12 months (Prices may vary slightly depending on location and currency). • Payment will be charged to your iTunes Account at confirmation of purchase
• Your subscription automatically renews unless auto-renew is turned off at least 24-hours before the end of the current period
• Your account will be charged for renewal within 24-hours prior to the end of the current period
• You can manage your subscription and switch off the auto-renewal by accessing your Account Settings after purchase
• You cannot cancel the current subscription during the active subscription period
• Any unused portion of a free trial period, if offered, will be forfeited if you purchase a subscription to that publication.
FET: Alternative Dating App Store
FET: Alternative Dating gets 1k+ downloads a day worldwide (AppInsider estimate, November 2026, rounded down to a band).
FET: Alternative Dating is #49 in Social Networking Grossing in United States and charting in 9 of 30 countries we track.
Updated 9 Nov 2026 · rankings refresh through the day
DeveloperIdeawise Ltd.
CategorySocial Networking
PriceFree
Released
Rating★ 4.3 (26k)
Version16.1.0
Age rating17+
First seen by us 24 Sep 2026
24 Sep 2026Installs (est.)1M+ worldwide
Rating
4.3 ★
26k ratings
Measured
Best rank now
#49
Social Networking GrossingMeasured
New ratings a week
250
▼ -10% vs the 2 weeks before
Measured
FET: Alternative Dating on the App Store
App details
App ID
1478870872
Publisher
Ideawise Ltd.
Publisher country
Hong Kong
On the store since
Nov 2019
6 years on the store
Minimum OS
iOS 15.1+
iPhone 6s and later
Devices
iPhone · iPad
Content rating
17+
3 content notes below
Languages
17
CS DA NL EN FI FR DE HU IT JA KO NB …
Size
252 MB
Also listed in
Lifestyle
Content notesFrequent/Intense Mature/Suggestive ThemesUnrestricted Web AccessInfrequent/Mild Profanity or Crude Humor
FET: Alternative Dating downloads
Worldwide, per day, and installs to date. The band is open; the exact number is free with an account.
How this is calculated
Apple publishes no download counts. App Store downloads come from chart positions and daily rating growth per country, calibrated on Google Play install counts; lifetime installs from ratings worldwide × installs per rating. Confidence is the chance the real number is within half to double ours.
Where FET: Alternative Dating's downloads come from Modelled
Last 30 days: organic search, browsing the store, features and paid ads.
Active users
All platforms, worldwide. Free with an account.
Stickiness (DAU / MAU)
how many monthly users open it on a given day
Retention · share of new users still active
Day 1
Day 7
Day 30
Time spent · per daily user
Average time spent Pro
min a day
Sessions a day Pro
Time per session Pro
min
How this is calculated
Monthly users come from lifetime installs across every store, fitted on monthly active user figures companies publish; daily users = monthly × the typical daily/monthly ratio for the category. Confidence is the chance the real number is within half to double ours.
In-app revenue
Worldwide, what users spend in FET: Alternative Dating before Apple and Google take their fee.
How this is calculated
Not in an overall Top Grossing chart, only in category charts: each category position is converted to the overall position it corresponds to, then priced on the same rank-to-revenue curve, inside the part of each market the charted apps leave over.
Business model: Subscription-led
How FET: Alternative Dating makes money: subscriptions, one-off purchases and ads.
SubscriptionsIn-app purchasesAds · 18 ad networks
Subscriptions
/mo
of revenue
Ads
/mo
of revenue
Top in-app purchases · App Store US, most popular first
| 1 | 1 Month subscription | |
| 2 | 1 Week subscription | |
| 3 | 1000 Points | |
| 4 | 1 Month subscription | |
| 5 | 1 Month Membership subscription | |
| 6 | 6 Months subscription | |
| 7 | 12 Months subscription | |
| 8 | 12 Months subscription | |
| 9 | 10000 Points | |
| 10 | 1 Month subscription |
Where it ranks now
Every top chart it appears in across 30 countries.
| Country | Charts | Rank |
|---|---|---|
| United States | Social NetworkingGrossing | #49 |
| United Kingdom | Social NetworkingGrossing | #30 |
| Germany | Social NetworkingGrossing | #27 |
| United States | Social NetworkingFree | #128 |
| Canada | Social NetworkingGrossing | #40 |
| United Kingdom | Social NetworkingFree | #74 |
| Germany | Social NetworkingFree | #67 |
| France | Social NetworkingGrossing | #73 |
| Canada | Social NetworkingFree | #65 |
| Australia | Social NetworkingGrossing | #81 |
| Brazil | Social NetworkingGrossing | #86 |
| Netherlands | Social NetworkingGrossing | #42 |
| Spain | Social NetworkingGrossing | #98 |
| Australia | Social NetworkingFree | #191 |
| Netherlands | Social NetworkingFree | #100 |
| Spain | Social NetworkingFree | #187 |
Apps near FET: Alternative Dating on the chart
Social Networking Grossing, around #49.
Ratings
App Store, worldwide.
Rating
4.3 ★
26k ratings
Measured
Ratings
26k
Measured
Review momentum
ⓘ How we measure thisNew ratings a week
250
▼ -10% vs the 2 weeks before
Written reviews a week
16+
US App Store (Apple shows only the newest)
Recent ratings
4.6★
vs 4.3★ lifetime
Recent written reviews
3.6★
people who write skew negative
Review momentum
80/100
faster than 96% of Social Networking apps
Growing fastest in United Kingdom ▲ +74% · Germany ▲ +34%
New ratings by country (10)
| Country | New ratings a week | Share | Last 2 weeks vs the 2 before |
|---|---|---|---|
| United States | 160 | 64% | ▼ -22% |
| Germany | 32 | 13% | ▲ +34% |
| Canada | 19 | 7% | ▲ +5% |
| United Kingdom | 15 | 6% | ▲ +74% |
| Brazil | 5.8 | 2% | ▼ -8% |
| Australia | 5.5 | 2% | ▼ -50% |
| France | 4.5 | 2% | steady |
| Spain | 3.5 | 1% | steady |
| Netherlands | 1.8 | 1% | – |
| Italy | 1.5 | 1% | – |
App Store ratings in the countries we track, 4-week average.
Review momentum (0-100) blends how fast the app collects ratings compared with other apps in its category (60%), whether that pace is speeding up (25%) and what recent raters give it (15%; recent stars well below lifetime pull it down). Ratings counts are read daily. A jump usually means a launch, a feature, ads or a new review prompt.
What users say about FET: Alternative Dating
From the 151 most recent App Store reviews in the US.
Mixed (46% of recent reviews give 4–5 stars). People like it for being fun, and good value. The main complaints are about price and subscriptions, and login and account problems. Recent reviews are more positive than earlier ones.
What people like
- Fun: “Good for “fun” and meetups”
- Price & subscription: “Very fun app even without paying”
- Ease of use: “Easy to use lots of fun ;)”
- Useful: “I recommend this App to every kinkster… It's been a lot of fun here since I joined the App”
Common complaints
- Price & subscription: “To costly and to many fakes”
- Login & account: “Cant even make an account”
- Privacy & data: “This app is full of scammers”
- Ads: “Too many paywalls and ads”
About FET: Alternative Dating
AN OPEN-MINDED COMMUNITY, NOT JUST A DATING APP
FET is alternative dating for open-minded people: singles, couples and everyone in between. Chat rooms, groups, a forum, local events and lifestyle dating, all in one place. An alternative lifestyle community. No explaining yourself, no judgement.
A REAL COMMUNITY
Join groups by interest, follow the forum, post to the newsfeed and get answers from members who have been there. Ask the awkward question. This is the part most dating apps don't have.
CHAT ROOMS AND PRIVATE MESSAGES
Live chat rooms to meet people in the open, private messages when you'd rather talk one to one. Chat first, meet when you're ready.
DATING, YOUR WAY
Browse profiles, connect with open-minded singles and couples near you, and be clear about what you're looking for. Casual relationships, polyamory, ethical non-monogamy (ENM), or something lasting. Your call, stated up front.
DECIDE WHO LEADS
Some like to take the lead. Some prefer to follow. Some switch depending on the day. FET is where open-minded people are honest about the dynamic they want, and where clear consent comes first, always.
EVENTS AND MEETUPS NEAR YOU
Find local events, community gatherings and workshops. Meet new people in person, at your pace, with people who already get it.
SAFETY AND DISCRETION
Verified profiles, discreet settings and a dedicated moderation team. Control who sees you and how much.
WHY CHOOSE FET?
- An open-minded community, not just a swipe queue
- Chat rooms, groups, forum and local events
- Alternative dating for singles and couples, curious or experienced
- Say what you want up front, no guessing games
- Discreet, verified and free to join
All photos are of models and used for illustrative purposes only.
FET is free to download. Optional paid memberships unlock additional features.
Privacy: https://www.fet-app.com/en/privacy
Terms: https://www.fet-app.com/en/terms
Visit: https://www.fet-app.com/en
Subscription Service Conditions:
• The membership costs 18.49 USD / 19,99 EUR / 17.99 GBP for 1 month; 63.99 USD / 69,99 EUR / 63.99 GBP for 6 months; and 90.99 USD / 99,99 EUR / 90.99 GBP for 12 months (Prices may vary slightly depending on location and currency). • Payment will be charged to your iTunes Account at confirmation of purchase
• Your subscription automatically renews unless auto-renew is turned off at least 24-hours before the end of the current period
• Your account will be charged for renewal within 24-hours prior to the end of the current period
• You can manage your subscription and switch off the auto-renewal by accessing your Account Settings after purchase
• You cannot cancel the current subscription during the active subscription period
• Any unused portion of a free trial period, if offered, will be forfeited if you purchase a subscription to that publication.
FET is alternative dating for open-minded people: singles, couples and everyone in between. Chat rooms, groups, a forum, local events and lifestyle dating, all in one place. An alternative lifestyle community. No explaining yourself, no judgement.
A REAL COMMUNITY
Join groups by interest, follow the forum, post to the newsfeed and get answers from members who have been there. Ask the awkward question. This is the part most dating apps don't have.
CHAT ROOMS AND PRIVATE MESSAGES
Live chat rooms to meet people in the open, private messages when you'd rather talk one to one. Chat first, meet when you're ready.
DATING, YOUR WAY
Browse profiles, connect with open-minded singles and couples near you, and be clear about what you're looking for. Casual relationships, polyamory, ethical non-monogamy (ENM), or something lasting. Your call, stated up front.
DECIDE WHO LEADS
Some like to take the lead. Some prefer to follow. Some switch depending on the day. FET is where open-minded people are honest about the dynamic they want, and where clear consent comes first, always.
EVENTS AND MEETUPS NEAR YOU
Find local events, community gatherings and workshops. Meet new people in person, at your pace, with people who already get it.
SAFETY AND DISCRETION
Verified profiles, discreet settings and a dedicated moderation team. Control who sees you and how much.
WHY CHOOSE FET?
- An open-minded community, not just a swipe queue
- Chat rooms, groups, forum and local events
- Alternative dating for singles and couples, curious or experienced
- Say what you want up front, no guessing games
- Discreet, verified and free to join
All photos are of models and used for illustrative purposes only.
FET is free to download. Optional paid memberships unlock additional features.
Privacy: https://www.fet-app.com/en/privacy
Terms: https://www.fet-app.com/en/terms
Visit: https://www.fet-app.com/en
Subscription Service Conditions:
• The membership costs 18.49 USD / 19,99 EUR / 17.99 GBP for 1 month; 63.99 USD / 69,99 EUR / 63.99 GBP for 6 months; and 90.99 USD / 99,99 EUR / 90.99 GBP for 12 months (Prices may vary slightly depending on location and currency). • Payment will be charged to your iTunes Account at confirmation of purchase
• Your subscription automatically renews unless auto-renew is turned off at least 24-hours before the end of the current period
• Your account will be charged for renewal within 24-hours prior to the end of the current period
• You can manage your subscription and switch off the auto-renewal by accessing your Account Settings after purchase
• You cannot cancel the current subscription during the active subscription period
• Any unused portion of a free trial period, if offered, will be forfeited if you purchase a subscription to that publication.
Latest updates
16.1.0
Improvement: We fixed a couple of nasty bugs to improve your kinky experience on FET
16.0.0
Improvement: We fixed a couple of nasty bugs to improve your kinky experience on FET
15.0.0
Store changes
What FET: Alternative Dating changed on its store page: name, icon, screenshots, price, size, languages, requirements.
Description updated
New screenshots
4 screenshots (was 4)
Renamed
FET: Kinky BDSM Dating App → FET: Alternative Dating
More from Ideawise Ltd.
FET: Alternative Dating Android
FET: Alternative Dating gets 1k+ downloads a day worldwide (AppInsider estimate, November 2026, rounded down to a band).
FET: Alternative Dating is #21 in Dating Grossing on Google Play in United Kingdom and charting in 14 of 23 countries we track.
Updated 9 Nov 2026 · rankings refresh through the day
DeveloperIdeawise-Limited
CategoryDating
PriceFree
Released
Installs1M+
Rating★ 3.9 (20k)
Updated
Content ratingUSK: Ages 18+
Rating
3.9 ★
20k ratings
Measured
Best rank now
#21
Dating GrossingMeasured
New ratings a week
97
steady vs the 2 weeks before
Measured
FET: Alternative Dating on Google Play
App details
App ID
de.ideawise.fet
Publisher
IDEAWISE LIMITED
Publisher country
Hong Kong
Content rating
USK: Ages 18+
FET: Alternative Dating downloads
Worldwide, per day, and installs to date. The band is open; the exact number is free with an account.
How this is calculated
Google Play shows an exact lifetime install count; downloads per day are its daily change (measured). When Play hasn't refreshed the count, they come from new ratings and Top Free chart positions. Confidence is the chance the real number is within half to double ours.
Where FET: Alternative Dating's downloads come from Modelled
Last 30 days: organic search, browsing the store, features and paid ads.
Active users
All platforms, worldwide. Free with an account.
Stickiness (DAU / MAU)
how many monthly users open it on a given day
Retention · share of new users still active
Day 1
Day 7
Day 30
Time spent · per daily user
Average time spent Pro
min a day
Sessions a day Pro
Time per session Pro
min
How this is calculated
Monthly users come from lifetime installs across every store, fitted on monthly active user figures companies publish; daily users = monthly × the typical daily/monthly ratio for the category. Confidence is the chance the real number is within half to double ours.
In-app revenue
Worldwide, what users spend in FET: Alternative Dating before Apple and Google take their fee.
How this is calculated
Not in an overall Top Grossing chart, only in category charts: each category position is converted to the overall position it corresponds to, then priced on the same rank-to-revenue curve, inside the part of each market the charted apps leave over.
Business model: Subscription-led
How FET: Alternative Dating makes money: subscriptions, one-off purchases and ads.
SubscriptionsIn-app purchasesAds · 18 ad networks
Subscriptions
/mo
of revenue
Ads
/mo
of revenue
Top in-app purchases · App Store US, most popular first
| 1 | 1 Month subscription | |
| 2 | 1 Week subscription | |
| 3 | 1000 Points | |
| 4 | 1 Month subscription | |
| 5 | 1 Month Membership subscription | |
| 6 | 6 Months subscription | |
| 7 | 12 Months subscription | |
| 8 | 12 Months subscription | |
| 9 | 10000 Points | |
| 10 | 1 Month subscription |
Where it ranks on Google Play
Every top 200 chart it appears in across 23 countries.
| Country | Charts | Rank |
|---|---|---|
| United Kingdom | DatingGrossing | #21 |
| Germany | DatingGrossing | #28 |
| Australia | DatingFree | #14 |
| United Kingdom | DatingFree | #32 |
| Australia | DatingGrossing | #20 |
| Germany | DatingFree | #35 |
| Brazil | DatingGrossing | #30 |
| Brazil | DatingFree | #48 |
 Saudi Arabia | DatingGrossing | #40 |
| Netherlands | DatingFree | #23 |
 Mexico | DatingGrossing | #49 |
 Indonesia | DatingGrossing | #44 |
| France | DatingFree | #113 |
 United Arab Emirates | DatingGrossing | #41 |
| Italy | DatingFree | #75 |
| Spain | DatingFree | #74 |
| Netherlands | DatingGrossing | #57 |
 Thailand | DatingGrossing | #43 |
 Vietnam | DatingGrossing | #40 |
| Mexico | DatingFree | #138 |
Apps near FET: Alternative Dating on the chart
Dating Grossing, around #21.
Ratings
Google Play, worldwide.
Rating
3.9 ★
20k ratings
Measured
Ratings
20k
Measured
Written reviews
1.1k
Measured
Review momentum
ⓘ How we measure thisNew ratings a week
97
steady vs the 2 weeks before
Written reviews a week
3.5
Google Play
Lifetime rating
4.0★
recent stars not readable yet: new ratings are a tiny share of the total
Review momentum
65/100
faster than 76% of Dating apps
Review momentum (0-100) blends how fast the app collects ratings compared with other apps in its category (60%), whether that pace is speeding up (25%) and what recent raters give it (15%; recent stars well below lifetime pull it down). Ratings counts are read daily. A jump usually means a launch, a feature, ads or a new review prompt.
About FET: Alternative Dating
AN OPEN-MINDED COMMUNITY, NOT JUST A DATING APP
FET is alternative dating for open-minded people: singles, couples and everyone in between. Chat rooms, groups, a forum, local events and lifestyle dating, all in one place. An alternative lifestyle community. No explaining yourself, no judgement.
A REAL COMMUNITY
Join groups by interest, follow the forum, post to the newsfeed and get answers from members who have been there. Ask the awkward question. This is the part most dating apps don't have.
CHAT ROOMS AND PRIVATE MESSAGES
Live chat rooms to meet people in the open, private messages when you'd rather talk one to one. Chat first, meet when you're ready.
DATING, YOUR WAY
Browse profiles, connect with open-minded singles and couples near you, and be clear about what you're looking for. Casual, open relationships, polyamory, ethical non-monogamy (ENM), or something lasting. Your call, stated up front.
DECIDE WHO LEADS
Some like to take the lead. Some prefer to follow. Some switch depending on the day. FET is where open-minded people are honest about the dynamic they want, and where clear consent comes first, always.
EVENTS AND MEETUPS NEAR YOU
Find local events, community gatherings and workshops. Meet new people in person, at your pace, with people who already get it.
SAFETY AND DISCRETION
Verified profiles, discreet settings and a dedicated moderation team. Control who sees you and how much.
WHY CHOOSE FET?
- An open-minded community, not just a swipe queue
- Chat rooms, groups, forum and local events
- Alternative dating for singles and couples, curious or experienced
- Say what you want up front, no guessing games
- Discreet, verified and free to join
All photos are of models and used for illustrative purposes only.
FET is free to download. Optional paid memberships unlock additional features.
Privacy: https://www.fet-app.com/en/privacy
Terms: https://www.fet-app.com/en/terms
Visit: https://www.fet-app.com/en
FET is alternative dating for open-minded people: singles, couples and everyone in between. Chat rooms, groups, a forum, local events and lifestyle dating, all in one place. An alternative lifestyle community. No explaining yourself, no judgement.
A REAL COMMUNITY
Join groups by interest, follow the forum, post to the newsfeed and get answers from members who have been there. Ask the awkward question. This is the part most dating apps don't have.
CHAT ROOMS AND PRIVATE MESSAGES
Live chat rooms to meet people in the open, private messages when you'd rather talk one to one. Chat first, meet when you're ready.
DATING, YOUR WAY
Browse profiles, connect with open-minded singles and couples near you, and be clear about what you're looking for. Casual, open relationships, polyamory, ethical non-monogamy (ENM), or something lasting. Your call, stated up front.
DECIDE WHO LEADS
Some like to take the lead. Some prefer to follow. Some switch depending on the day. FET is where open-minded people are honest about the dynamic they want, and where clear consent comes first, always.
EVENTS AND MEETUPS NEAR YOU
Find local events, community gatherings and workshops. Meet new people in person, at your pace, with people who already get it.
SAFETY AND DISCRETION
Verified profiles, discreet settings and a dedicated moderation team. Control who sees you and how much.
WHY CHOOSE FET?
- An open-minded community, not just a swipe queue
- Chat rooms, groups, forum and local events
- Alternative dating for singles and couples, curious or experienced
- Say what you want up front, no guessing games
- Discreet, verified and free to join
All photos are of models and used for illustrative purposes only.
FET is free to download. Optional paid memberships unlock additional features.
Privacy: https://www.fet-app.com/en/privacy
Terms: https://www.fet-app.com/en/terms
Visit: https://www.fet-app.com/en
What's new in 16.0.0
Improvement: We fixed a couple of nasty bugs to improve your kinky experience on FET
Store changes
What FET: Alternative Dating changed on its store page: name, icon, screenshots, price, size, languages, requirements.
Description updated
Short description updated
New screenshots
4 screenshots (was 5)